Can I sincerely ask what is wrong with gender roles ? I was raised a woman needs to b e scene and not heard, a good person, quiet, submissive, and a man will handle everything. I am not lost in a society obsessed with sex mostly but I do not want to be independent and without a man (as I am now) and it feels wrong, What is so wrong with one person dominant and one being a homemaker?
The notion that a woman is supposed to be seen, and not
heard, is in my opinion, very wrong.
Everyone has an opinion, including women. And in my own opinion, one mans opinion is just as important as one womans opinion. Every human being has a right to their own opinion, every human being has the choice to share it or not. Again, in my opinion, men, women & every human being in between should not be judged or discrimimated on, simply for sharing their opinion.
Second, the notion that women are supposed to be seen, over being heard, is again in my opinion very wrong. It is also my opinion that this notion is sadly the reason why many individuals, especially women, suffer from body issues. Mind you when i say body issues, I’m talking about a list ranging from anorexia to anxiety and everyrthing in between. I’m not saying this notion is the main factor for people with body issues, but a cause for them no less.
There is nothing wrong with being quiet or submissive or both. But it is wrong to assume women are the only individuals who should be as such.
The notion that a “man” will handle everything is scary. What it means to “be a man” is different for most, and sometimes leads so called “men” to do irrational things such as beat his wife, because he thinks its neccesary for maintaining his “manhood.” Not speaking about all men, but giving an example of how the notion of “being a man” can become bent and twisted, leading to disaster.
What’s wrong with a relationship consisting of one dominate figure and one submissive figure?
However, in my opinion, it is wrong to assume that the dominate figure is always male, and the submissive figure is always female. Its also wrong to assume that all realtionships have to function this way.
I hope I answered your questions, whoever you are. I send you good vibes and hope that you can enlighten yourself to a deeper way of thought, beyond those of your upbringing.
P.s. Forgive my many spelling mistakes, I’m responding on my phone durring my lunch break. Xoxo