House Of Alexzander

Light to Dark.

Autumn is fast approaching which means its time for a transformation!
For as long as I can remember, I have changed with the seasons.
Not necessarily just my wardrobe but my emotions are a bit different as well. I am particularly excited about this Fall season because I feel that I have grown tremendously since last year.

This photo set begins with my last few outfits of the summer, then leads you into just a little taste of what my followers can expect to see this Fall/Winter season. I want to use deep hair, lip & nail colors to accent a dark and mysterious wardrobe. Focusing on cosmetics & shoes, my goal is to address the issues gender variant individuals might face this season when buying clothes and cosmetics tailored for a binary gendered society.
A few topics include facial hair & how I maintain it for make up application, as well as how AFAB can grow facial hair without taking hormones! A shoe guide that connects you with affordable brands that offer trendy shoe styles in sizes 11 & higher! Last but not least, I will begin making the lip colors & nail colors I wear in my fashion post available to you via my Thrift Store! A few other things will take place this fall, but you’ll have to stay tuned to find out!
Along with elevating my style, I also am striving to elevate the presence of House of Alexzander. I’m excited and anticipating a great Season ahead!

Much love,
Xoxo
-Elliott Alexzander

Here is a whole mess of THROW BACK for you!
I’ve been moving and I found two flash drives with all these pictures!

This was me at the very beginning stages of my transformation.
I had just learned about gender variance and was trying to embrace my gender fluidity by wearing different clothes (Leggings, feminine tops, ect.)
However, I still had not broken free from the masculine shell society had boxed me in.

By the way, all these outfits were shot behind my house, where NO ONE could see me. I was still not confident enough to leave the house in something like what I’m wearing above!

This photo set is just proof that things take time! If you’re struggling with gender identity, I understand the fear & anxiety you’re going through because I have been there myself and these photos are proof. Proof of a time when I was still scared of being non-binary & fearful of what my friends and family would say and if they could accept me.

Keep your head up & push forward!
You are special and most importantly,
YOU ARE NOT ALONE!

Xoxo

-Elliott Alexzander

My favorite #Prince album cover.

"I’m not a woman. I’m not a man. I am something that you’ll never understand." - Prince High-res

My favorite #Prince album cover.

"I’m not a woman. I’m not a man. I am something that you’ll never understand." - Prince

Suffocation.

Its so frustrating when what used to be my freedom,
becomes the very box I’m caged inside of.

Gender identity has consumed me.
Because even though I have proclaimed time and time again…

I AM NOT A MAN! 
I AM NOT A WOMAN! 
I AM ONLY HUMAN!

Much of the world around me continues to brush me off as unnecessary,
confusion.

I was trapped within gender identity, in and among the illusion.
So although I have broken away and I’ve been set free,
now days it seems all I am anymore is just lonely.

For people like my partner, this is hard for them to believe, because in there mind the love they give should be enough to keep me company.
But its not quite that simple.

Anywhere there are people… there is gender, to dictate everything from language and tone to fashion and clothes. 
And that’s only just the start.

Anywhere there aren’t people… Is just lonely.

Food for thought.

Xoxo

-Elliott Alexzander High-res

Suffocation.

Its so frustrating when what used to be my freedom,
becomes the very box I’m caged inside of.

Gender identity has consumed me.
Because even though I have proclaimed time and time again…

I AM NOT A MAN!
I AM NOT A WOMAN!
I AM ONLY HUMAN!

Much of the world around me continues to brush me off as unnecessary,
confusion.

I was trapped within gender identity, in and among the illusion.
So although I have broken away and I’ve been set free,
now days it seems all I am anymore is just lonely.

For people like my partner, this is hard for them to believe, because in there mind the love they give should be enough to keep me company.
But its not quite that simple.

Anywhere there are people… there is gender, to dictate everything from language and tone to fashion and clothes.
And that’s only just the start.

Anywhere there aren’t people… Is just lonely.

Food for thought.

Xoxo

-Elliott Alexzander

@DazedMagazine says “Every so often, while trawling through endless, identikit OOTD Tumblrs, you find a gem that makes the search worthwhile. All is not as it seems at first glance of Elliott Alexzander’s already-influential site, where it’s namesake dons his truly gender-disruptive outfits, and blogs about his day-to-day experiences – both negative and positive.”

Check out the full article by following the link!
Xoxo

-Elliott Alexzander