House Of Alexzander

Festival Wear.

A lot of you have been asking about what I might wear to warped tour and other music festivals & such. I hope I don’t disappoint, but honestly its gets to damn hot to be wearing a bunch of layers… or any layers for that matter.
Plus, I get all sweaty and I HATE sweat stains on my nicer close.

So, if you were to spot me & warped this is probably close to what I would be wearing.

Xoxo

-Elliott Alexzander

Gender magician.

So I discovered another blog today that basically post all of my photos as their own and claims to be me, except there is one catch….

Instead of calling the blog House of Alexzander or giving out my name, the blog is called “Gender Magician” …

Not gonna lie, I kinda like the title. … a little.
I really don’t care that much that they steal my photos either. The point of my fashion photos are to be creative, inspirational & breakdown gender binaries so… hey, as long as those three things are still being encouraged through my work, fine. But it would be nice to get the recognition for MY work.

Anyways, I’m most curious to see how this individual is going to react when they come to steal this post. Lol.

Xoxo

-Elliott Alexzander

So excited I found this individuals blog!!!!
They have great style and have found their own unique balance between masculine and feminine fashions. 

This is a great blog for anyone who’s body type is naturally curvy and soft, but would prefer to appear more dapper, but not entirely rugged.

Xoxo, I hope that makes sense!

http://the-girl-dandy.tumblr.com/

-Elliott Alexzander High-res

So excited I found this individuals blog!!!!
They have great style and have found their own unique balance between masculine and feminine fashions.

This is a great blog for anyone who’s body type is naturally curvy and soft, but would prefer to appear more dapper, but not entirely rugged.

Xoxo, I hope that makes sense!

http://the-girl-dandy.tumblr.com/

-Elliott Alexzander

Playful.

It was so beautiful today!
I decided to take a walk down town and visit the coffee shop for a pomegranate Izzy and just people watch.

A very relaxing day indeed.

Just wanted to share my outfit and remind everyone to be yourself! Remember to take time out for yourself and enjoy the little things!

Xoxo

-Elliott Alexzander

I’m not a perfect person. I make mistakes. But don’t turn your back because of one screw up. Point out my mistakes, otherwise I’m not aware, and understand that ill be damn sure to point out yours too, because you need to be aware. Like how you’re so damn sensitive. Don’t judge me before you fully understand my intentions. I wouldn’t be where I am today without making the mistakes that I have already made and neither would you. Friendship isn’t all fun and games. Its hard. Sometimes I need to hurt your feelings and sometimes you need to hurt mine. But at the end of the day, we’re helping each other out.

To My Best Friend.
Flesh & Bones.

Being gender fluid can be difficult sometimes.
Being born and raised in a society where quite literally almost everything is gendered, I have moments where I feel like such an alien.
Sometimes I hate my body.
Sometimes I absolutely love my body.
It really all depends on what side of the gender spectrum I seem to be drifting to in those moments.

Not having boobs, having lots of body hair. All of this drives me up the wall. 
Sometimes.
That’s just it though. Its only sometimes.
There are other times when I really embrace my body and identify it with societies twisted idea of what a “boys” body should look like.
Its comfortable. Its easy.

Not to be funny, but seriously at the end of the day. 
The struggle is real.

One of the ways that I have been able to cope with my body type, if not the most helpful way, is to remind myself that no matter what my body looks like, it consist of all the same things.

Blood & Veins.
Skin & Bones.
Muscles & Brains.

At the end of the day, despite that the size, shape or color of my body is different from someone else… we are all just skin and bones.

This comforts me because…
We all have things we don’t like about ourselves. 
We all have things that we wish were a little different. 
We are all born and will die with the same flesh and bones.

-Elliott Alexzander High-res

Flesh & Bones.

Being gender fluid can be difficult sometimes.
Being born and raised in a society where quite literally almost everything is gendered, I have moments where I feel like such an alien.
Sometimes I hate my body.
Sometimes I absolutely love my body.
It really all depends on what side of the gender spectrum I seem to be drifting to in those moments.

Not having boobs, having lots of body hair. All of this drives me up the wall.
Sometimes.
That’s just it though. Its only sometimes.
There are other times when I really embrace my body and identify it with societies twisted idea of what a “boys” body should look like.
Its comfortable. Its easy.

Not to be funny, but seriously at the end of the day.
The struggle is real.

One of the ways that I have been able to cope with my body type, if not the most helpful way, is to remind myself that no matter what my body looks like, it consist of all the same things.

Blood & Veins.
Skin & Bones.
Muscles & Brains.

At the end of the day, despite that the size, shape or color of my body is different from someone else… we are all just skin and bones.

This comforts me because…
We all have things we don’t like about ourselves.
We all have things that we wish were a little different.
We are all born and will die with the same flesh and bones.

-Elliott Alexzander