House Of Alexzander

Gender labels are not needed for medical or hygienic reasons.

Yes, all body types are not the same and sometimes require different kinds of hygienic/medical attention. But we do not need gender labels for this.

A persons body type determines the kind of hygienic/medical attention they need.
A persons gender identity, does not.

genderfluid-facts:

FACT: Genderfluid people can change their appearance at will, but only on the inside.

FICTION
I struggled with balancing my gender fluidity with my physical appearance for a long time.
Not much is more miserable than constantly being uncomfortable in your own skin.
Overtime, I’ve discovered little ways to alter my physical appearance at will, daily if need be.
I’m quite good at balancing my physical appearance with my gender identity.
I am gender fluid.

However, the sad part about this struggle is that its created by todays binary social norm.
The REAL FACT is that gender stereotypes shouldn’t exist!
In fact, I will even go as far as saying gender labels shouldn’t exist!
Gender labels are a mistake!
I should be able to just be myself, wear what I think is cute and express my personality how I see fit, without pressure from anyone to act a certain way or dress a certain way based upon a label I have given or someone else has placed on my gender identity.
Gender identity should be irrelevant.
There would be no struggle for gender equality, if gender simply didn’t exist.

What is so wrong with the idea of a world where people are just people.
Where there are no “boys” and no “girls” … just people.
Imagine a world where your body, your mannerisms & personalities are all uniquely your own without having to be marginalized by gender identity and then rudely enforced by a marginalized social mainstream.

-Elliott Alexzander
Quick update!

I’m currently working on completing a cover video for everyone. I want it to be perfect though, so its taking some time. Plus, I am in the process of moving which is eating up a lot of my time. Just know, its in the work for you!

For now, here is my OOTD!
I also wanted to talk about the top I am wearing, especially if you are DMAB! One of the big problems I face when buying “women’s” clothing is that I don’t have breast. Most “women’s wear” is design for individuals with breast, unfortunately.
However, this top is perfect!
Basically, because you tie the top in the back, you have control over how tight it fits you in the front. So if you don’t have breast, you can easily adjust how the top fits you!

Now, for the awesome part! I actually hand made this top!
That’s awesome because I plan on using designs like this in my own clothing line. So yeah! You are getting a glimpse at one of the first designs I will be launching with my very own clothing brand!

Xoxo

-Elliott Alexzander High-res

Quick update!

I’m currently working on completing a cover video for everyone. I want it to be perfect though, so its taking some time. Plus, I am in the process of moving which is eating up a lot of my time. Just know, its in the work for you!

For now, here is my OOTD!
I also wanted to talk about the top I am wearing, especially if you are DMAB! One of the big problems I face when buying “women’s” clothing is that I don’t have breast. Most “women’s wear” is design for individuals with breast, unfortunately.
However, this top is perfect!
Basically, because you tie the top in the back, you have control over how tight it fits you in the front. So if you don’t have breast, you can easily adjust how the top fits you!

Now, for the awesome part! I actually hand made this top!
That’s awesome because I plan on using designs like this in my own clothing line. So yeah! You are getting a glimpse at one of the first designs I will be launching with my very own clothing brand!

Xoxo

-Elliott Alexzander

The Corners of My Soul.

Between the cracks of my skin,
deep down into every crevasse of my brain,
in every corner of my soul,
there is a piece of myself.

There is a thought not yet thought of.
There lay an idea not yet inspired.
There awaits a feeling not yet felt.

By letting go of the socially constructed world I once called home,
I let go of everything I ever knew and my soul was left exposed.
A blank space to fill with whatever I choose.

I was thirsty for knowledge, I craved inspiration and longed for the truth.
But more than anything I was desperate for love.
Not for the love of another, but for the love of myself.

With each passing day,
I discovered acceptance for my body.
I detected confidence in my voice.
I found faith in my heart.
I touched the corners of my soul.

And to think, 
it all stared by letting go of everything I ever knew & rediscovering the world and myself for what it is and who I am.

Discover the world for yourself.
Let love guide your travels.
Listen to your soul.

Xoxo

-Elliott Alexzander High-res

The Corners of My Soul.

Between the cracks of my skin,
deep down into every crevasse of my brain,
in every corner of my soul,
there is a piece of myself.

There is a thought not yet thought of.
There lay an idea not yet inspired.
There awaits a feeling not yet felt.

By letting go of the socially constructed world I once called home,
I let go of everything I ever knew and my soul was left exposed.
A blank space to fill with whatever I choose.

I was thirsty for knowledge, I craved inspiration and longed for the truth.
But more than anything I was desperate for love.
Not for the love of another, but for the love of myself.

With each passing day,
I discovered acceptance for my body.
I detected confidence in my voice.
I found faith in my heart.
I touched the corners of my soul.

And to think,
it all stared by letting go of everything I ever knew & rediscovering the world and myself for what it is and who I am.

Discover the world for yourself.
Let love guide your travels.
Listen to your soul.

Xoxo

-Elliott Alexzander

A quick update!

We just added a bunch of new things into Elliott Alexzander’s thrift store!
Since we can’t offer multiple sizes YET the next collection will focus on shoes and accessories!!

Be sure to use the code “TUMBLRLOVE" at check out for 20% OFF your entire order, and when you spend $50 or more you’ll get a free Gender Variant Wristband!!

Xoxo
The Team

(limited sizes and quantities are due to the thrift shop setting. There is only one of each item and all the items were previously owned by Elliott Alexzander, that is why they are all the same size. We apologize and hope you’ll look forward to our next collection focusing on shoes and accessories which are items easily worn by everyone. Thanks for understanding, much love!)

My Weakness is My Strength.

I don’t think much of anyone likes being vulnerable.
Speaking for myself however, I am quite accustomed to it.

But let me make something clear.
Being gender variant, non-binary, queer 
or even the fact that I was born with a traditional “male” body type
but wear many traditional “female” fashions such as the outfit above…..
none of these things are what make me vulnerable. 

I am vulnerable because I am openly & wholeheartedly myself.

I know that through a simple tumblr post, it might seem as if I make being yourself oh so easy. The truth is that I pay a very high price for my uncompromised freedom of expression.

Everything from my personal safety to the chance at a successful career is compromised by my decision to follow my heart, instead of following the crowd. However, this is really only the beginning of my sacrifice.

As my blog progresses and the number of individuals that are inspired by my personal freedom continues to grow, I must really think about the sacrifices I have had to make and will have to make in order to be so… free.

That is the purpose of this blog post.
To make everyone aware that personal freedom is as much of a blessing as it is a curse.

I will forever and always aspire to inspire the individual in humanity by being an example of a true individual. But I am choosing to also be transparent of the hardships that come along with the great adventures and satisfaction of my personal freedom. I feel it is the right thing to do, for by my mother, my teachers and my idols I was blindly taught to always be myself, but no one cared to mention the cost I would have to pay or the sacrifice I would be required to make.

I do not want to blindly lead the people who look up to me.
I want to inspire a kind of personal freedom that is not only fabulous,
But strong, courageous, truthful & positively life changing.

I worked extra hard on this photo set because I wanted it to catch the attention of all the amazing followers I have out there.
I love and appreciate all of you so much. Your messages and comments are the only thing that saves me from giving up because its easy to give up on myself, but I could never, ever give up on all of you.
Xoxo

-Elliott Alexzander High-res

My Weakness is My Strength.

I don’t think much of anyone likes being vulnerable.
Speaking for myself however, I am quite accustomed to it.

But let me make something clear.
Being gender variant, non-binary, queer
or even the fact that I was born with a traditional “male” body type
but wear many traditional “female” fashions such as the outfit above…..
none of these things are what make me vulnerable.

I am vulnerable because I am openly & wholeheartedly myself.

I know that through a simple tumblr post, it might seem as if I make being yourself oh so easy. The truth is that I pay a very high price for my uncompromised freedom of expression.

Everything from my personal safety to the chance at a successful career is compromised by my decision to follow my heart, instead of following the crowd. However, this is really only the beginning of my sacrifice.

As my blog progresses and the number of individuals that are inspired by my personal freedom continues to grow, I must really think about the sacrifices I have had to make and will have to make in order to be so… free.

That is the purpose of this blog post.
To make everyone aware that personal freedom is as much of a blessing as it is a curse.

I will forever and always aspire to inspire the individual in humanity by being an example of a true individual. But I am choosing to also be transparent of the hardships that come along with the great adventures and satisfaction of my personal freedom. I feel it is the right thing to do, for by my mother, my teachers and my idols I was blindly taught to always be myself, but no one cared to mention the cost I would have to pay or the sacrifice I would be required to make.

I do not want to blindly lead the people who look up to me.
I want to inspire a kind of personal freedom that is not only fabulous,
But strong, courageous, truthful & positively life changing.

I worked extra hard on this photo set because I wanted it to catch the attention of all the amazing followers I have out there.
I love and appreciate all of you so much. Your messages and comments are the only thing that saves me from giving up because its easy to give up on myself, but I could never, ever give up on all of you.
Xoxo

-Elliott Alexzander

Making Time.

Sometimes its hard to pull yourself away from your own world.
In fact, it only gets harder as you get older it seems.
But its important that you remember to stay interested in your friendships, even when you really don’t feel like being interested.
I know from personal experience how easy it is for friendship or even companionship to just fall through the cracks when everything on the surface is moving so quickly.

Time is such a nuisance because it slips away, and often it tends to take things like relationships with it.
But in relationships, time is everything.
So make time. 
Find time where ever & whenever you possibly can, 
because tomorrow the time you thought you had could be gone,
and your friendships gone with it.

Xoxo

-Elliott Alexzander High-res

Making Time.

Sometimes its hard to pull yourself away from your own world.
In fact, it only gets harder as you get older it seems.
But its important that you remember to stay interested in your friendships, even when you really don’t feel like being interested.
I know from personal experience how easy it is for friendship or even companionship to just fall through the cracks when everything on the surface is moving so quickly.

Time is such a nuisance because it slips away, and often it tends to take things like relationships with it.
But in relationships, time is everything.
So make time.
Find time where ever & whenever you possibly can,
because tomorrow the time you thought you had could be gone,
and your friendships gone with it.

Xoxo

-Elliott Alexzander